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One of the biggest challenges we face as humans is breaking a behaviour. When you have a pattern that creates negative consequences in your life, you may need help. Here we explain what pornography addiction is and what you can do about it.

What is pornography addiction?

Pornography addiction is problematic and addictive behaviour related to pornography. Considered a type of sex addiction, it is characterized by unlimited consumption of pornography, lack of control, development of tolerance, withdrawal symptoms, loss of interest in other activities, and negative impacts on life. Professional help can be important if someone is experiencing problematic pornography consumption.

Is pornography addiction a diagnosis?

Pornography addiction is not a formal medical or psychiatric diagnosis according to DSM-5 (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders). There is no consensus among experts on whether pornography addiction should be classified as a separate diagnosis, and it is a subject of debate in science.

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Pornography addiction is a term often used informally to describe a pattern of problematic and addictive behaviour related to pornography. It can be a manifestation of various underlying problems, such as impulse disorders or other mental health concerns.

If someone is experiencing problems with pornography or sexual behaviour that are negatively affecting their lives, it is wise to seek professional therapy to understand and address these issues. The therapist can use various treatment methods to help the client improve their situation and relationships, whether it is formally classified as an ‘addiction’ or not.

Causes of pornography addiction

The causes of problematic pornography consumption can be complex and vary from person to person. Possible factors include biological vulnerabilities, psychological problems such as anxiety or depression, use as a coping mechanism for stress, increased availability of pornography on the internet, the influence of societal attitudes towards sexuality, and exposure to pornography at a young age.

It is important to note that the causes may be unique to each individual, and it is usually a combination of several factors that come into play. Professional help can be essential to understand and manage the problem if someone is experiencing problematic pornography consumption.


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Symptoms of pornography addiction

The symptoms of pornography addiction or problematic pornography consumption can include excessive consumption, lack of control over watching pornography, and withdrawal symptoms when not watching pornography. Symptoms also include pornography consumption negatively impacting different areas of life, as well as loss of interest in other activities, loss of control, continued consumption despite negative consequences, hiding consumption, and decreased self-esteem.

It is important to remember that symptoms vary from person to person, and professional help can be crucial if someone is experiencing pornography consumption that is negatively affecting their life.

Help with pornography addiction

If you are wondering whether you have a pornography addiction or are at risk of developing one, it is important to seek help. Otherwise, problems can develop and worsen over time.

Treatment for pornography addiction

Treating pornography addiction or problematic pornography consumption is individualized and varies depending on the person’s needs and the severity of the problem. Common treatment methods include:

  1. Therapy: Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) can help treat pornography addiction. The therapist helps the client identify the underlying causes of their behaviour and develops strategies to manage desires and control impulses.
  2. Support groups: Participating in support groups or self-help groups with others experiencing similar problems can be useful. It provides a sense of community and support from people who understand the challenges.
  3. Family therapy: Sometimes problematic pornography use can affect relationships and family life. Family therapy can help to understand and manage the impact of the problem on relationships.
  4. Medication: Medication may be prescribed to treat underlying anxiety or depression.
  5. Internet filters and self-control tools: Using technological tools such as internet filters or self-control apps can help limit the availability of pornographic material.
  6. Lifestyle changes: Making positive lifestyle changes, such as developing new interests and activities, can reduce the risk of relapse.
  7. Education and awareness: Understanding the consequences of problematic pornography consumption and raising awareness of its impact can be part of treatment.

Individualized treatment is the most effective. It may also include addressing any underlying issues, such as anxiety, depression or low self-esteem. The aim is to help the client achieve better control over their behaviour and improve their life.

Treatment with CBT online

It is possible to get therapy for pornography addiction online. At Lavendla, we have licensed psychologists and CBT therapists who can help you with treatment.

From conversation to understanding and change

Talk therapy is often the first step in seeking help. By working with a psychologist or therapist, you can begin to understand your symptoms and triggers, which is essential for long-term change.

When professional help is unavoidable

If your substance use or a certain activity is beginning to affect your work and personal life, seeking professional help is essential. It is never too late to break free from addiction. Help is available and support is just a click away. So if you or someone you love is struggling with these issues, don’t hesitate to seek professional help. For information about addiction services and facilities near you, call 211.


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12 common questions and answers about porn addiction

What is pornography addiction?

Porn addiction, also called pornography addiction, means problematic and addictive behaviour related to pornography.

Is pornography addiction a diagnosis?

Pornography addiction is not formally recognized as a specific diagnosis in the major diagnostic manuals, but overconsumption of pornography can have negative impacts on your quality of life. It is possible to get help.

Can pornography addiction be cured?

All types of addiction can be treated, but it often requires care and support. It is possible to change your patterns and improve your quality of life.

What are the signs that I may be addicted to pornography?

Symptoms include unlimited consumption of pornography, lack of control, withdrawal symptoms, loss of interest in other activities, and pornography negatively impacting your life.

What are the risks of pornography addiction?

The potential risks range from problems with our physical and mental health to problems in relationships. It is therefore advisable to seek help.

How can I help a family member who is addicted to pornography?

The first step is to offer your support. Encourage them to seek professional help and stand by them during treatment. Seek information about pornography addiction if you find it difficult to understand and, if you are a partner, consider attending therapy for yourself.

What treatment options are available?

There are several different types of treatment such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT).

Can you have other mental health problems while being addicted to pornography?

There may be underlying mental health concerns such as anxiety, depression, or low self-esteem.

What can be done in case of relapse?

Relapse can happen and it is important to seek help immediately. Relapse is not a sign of failure but it is important to act quickly to get back on track.

What resources are available?

In addition to our professional therapists and psychologists, many websites, books, and support groups can offer additional information and support.

Can I be treated online?

Yes, our therapists and psychologists offer therapy via video conferencing.

How important is the support system around a person with an addiction?

A support system is often crucial to successful recovery. This includes professional help with treatment and a good support system both emotionally and practically. It can help reduce the risk of relapse and help the person maintain a healthier lifestyle.

Treatment steps to improve quality of life

There are different ways to treat pornography addiction. Tailoring treatment to the individual’s needs and the severity of the problem is important. Here is a general description of how treatment for pornography addiction can work:

1. Evaluation and diagnosis

Treatment usually begins with a thorough assessment and evaluation of the person’s problematic pornography consumption. This includes determining how long the behaviour has been going on, its impact on different areas of life, and any underlying causes.

2. Treatment planning

You and your therapist create a treatment plan, which often includes different treatment methods such as psychotherapy, drug treatment and sometimes even self-help groups.

3. Psychotherapeutic treatment

A common form of therapy used to treat pornography addiction is CBT. The therapist works with the client to identify and change negative thought patterns and behaviours related to pornography consumption. CBT typically includes developing strategies to manage desires, learning to manage impulses, and changing behavioural patterns.

4. Support groups

Participating in support groups or self-help groups with others experiencing similar problems can be a valuable part of treatment. It provides a sense of community and support.

5. Additional measures

If necessary, it may be important to take measures to limit access to pornographic material, such as installing internet filters or self-control apps.

6. Working on underlying issues

Anxiety, depression, and other underlying mental health concerns can be treated concurrently.

    It is important to note that treatment can be a long-term process, and relapses are possible. It is therefore important that the client has the support and resources to deal with any relapses if they occur.

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    Written by Sophia Coulter

    Sophia is a registered nurse with experience in inpatient, emergency and community mental health care. She has a passion for providing emergency support for those experiencing mental health crises.