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Most of us know of someone with ADHD, but understanding what the diagnosis actually means might be unclear. Lavendla can help you with the answers!

What is ADHD?

It is a disability and diagnosis that affects many aspects of life and leads to difficulties in areas such as study, work and relationships. The most common characteristics of ADHD are difficulty concentrating, impulsivity and hyperactivity. The cause of the diagnosis is not entirely clear, but some factors have been identified as having an impact.

Heredity can be a factor. Often, a parent will have similar problems, but this is not always the case. It has also been observed that many people with ADHD have poorer working memory, which can make it difficult to organise things, keep track of details and remember things. Emotional problems, restlessness, and impulsiveness can also be present.

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Biological causes are also possible, such as effects on dopamine and noradrenaline, which medication can sometimes help. It is important to note that ADHD is not related to intelligence. If you have a higher level of intelligence, you may have found strategies to make life easier, but you may still have ADHD.

ADHD comes in different degrees of severity: mild, moderate and severe, depending on the number of problems you experience in everyday life in different areas. There are also three types of ADHD: one with only inattention problems (previously called ADD), a combined one with both inattention and hyperactivity/impulsivity problems, and a third with only hyperactivity/impulsivity problems. If you, or someone you know, experiences any of these problems, it might be ADHD.

ADHD, depression and anxiety

ADHD often occurs together with other conditions such as anxiety and depression. Depression can also cause difficulties with concentration, so a thorough assessment is important. Anxiety issues are common in ADHD, as the stress of organisation and planning difficulties can cause symptoms. Our psychologists can help you with both assessment and treatment for other symptoms.


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Sleep problems as a symptom

Sleep problems are another indicator to be aware of. This is particularly relevant if you have children who you suspect are suffering from ADHD. It is not uncommon in neuropsychiatric disorders and can affect both school and social life. For adults, sleep problems can worsen work performance and can lead to additional stress and anxiety. Routines are important here, but treatment for sleep problems is also available.

ADHD children

For children, the symptoms of ADHD can in some cases be obvious, while others can go almost unnoticed, often because there are different levels of severity. Many children show an intensity of contact and may have difficulty organising and keeping things in order. They may forget things and need a lot of reminding. Relationships can also be problematic and bullying is not uncommon. Others may find you annoying because of your hyperactivity and impulsiveness. Many people experience problems with self-confidence and self-image.

ADHD adults

For many people, ADHD can become more apparent as they get older when demands and responsibilities increase. This is often the case for those with milder symptoms who may have done quite well in life and lived with undetected or undiagnosed symptoms for a long time. If you had supportive parents, they may have compensated for the symptoms, which then only become apparent when leaving home. They may have found strategies and solutions to their problems that have worked to some extent. Despite this, it may have been a major effort to cope with school, and then in adulthood stress-related problems appear at work. Exhaustion is not uncommon in adults with ADHD.


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Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) for ADHD

CBT is an evidence-based approach that can be adapted specifically for ADHD and is effective in managing symptoms such as inattention, planning and organisation. In the treatment you will receive:

  • Identification of problem situations: Understand what triggers your unwanted behaviour or thoughts and get help to change it.
  • Tools for coping: Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) provides concrete tools for managing ADHD with organisation, planning and stress management.
  • Evaluation and follow-up: Regular sessions with a psychologist and doctor will help you evaluate your progress.

CBT can also treat related conditions such as stress, depression, anxiety and sleep problems. You can also get help with your self-esteem and confidence, which are often affected by ADHD.

Risk of addiction

As people with ADHD often struggle with impulsivity, the risk of addiction is higher. This can range from alcohol and drugs to unhealthy habits such as overconsumption. If you experience any form of addiction, it is important to seek professional help immediately.

A way forward

If any of this sounds familiar, it may be time to take the plunge and talk to a professional. At Lavendla, you will find licensed psychologists and therapists with extensive experience with ADHD and related conditions. Taking the step to seek help can be difficult, but at Lavendla we always work to make the difficult easier.


12 common questions about ADHD

What is ADHD?

ADHD stands for Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder and is a neuropsychiatric diagnosis. It is characterised by difficulty concentrating, impulsivity and hyperactivity.

Are ADHD and hyperactivity the same thing?

No, ADHD and hyperactivity are not exactly the same. While hyperactivity is one of the symptoms that can occur, you can be diagnosed without being hyperactive.

How is ADHD diagnosed?

The diagnosis is usually made through an evaluation by a psychologist and a doctor who specialises in psychiatry. This evaluation may include interviews, behavioural observations, and sometimes neuropsychological tests.

What are the treatment options for ADHD?

Treatment can include medication and psychotherapeutic methods such as CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy). An individualised treatment plan is important.

Can adults have ADHD?

Yes, ADHD is present at any age. Many adults live with undetected or undiagnosed symptoms. If you suspect that you have ADHD, it is important to seek professional help. Many times the symptoms become more apparent in adulthood as demands increase.

How does ADHD affect everyday life?

ADHD can make it difficult to focus on work or school, and can also affect relationships. However, with the right support and tools, you can make the difficult easier and live a full life.

How long does an ADHD assessment take?

An ADHD assessment takes about 10-12 hours and is completed within 4-6 weeks. There are ADHD assessments for adults and ADHD assessments for children.

Where can I get help with an assessment?

At Lavendla, we recommend booking an introductory online session with one of our experienced therapists to discuss your situation. From there, a plan can be made for an assessment.

What should I do if I think my child has ADHD?

If you think your child may have a neuropsychiatric diagnosis, you can have a neuropsychiatric examination for children carried out by a qualified professional. Or start by talking to the staff at your child’s school to get a better understanding.

Can ADHD be cured?

No, it is not possible to cure ADHD but it is possible to get help and support to make everyday life work better.

I have been through a trauma, can I have ADHD?

It is possible to have ADHD and have experienced trauma, but it is important that you get a proper assessment and treatment for your trauma symptoms as well.

Is it different to be a woman and have ADHD?

ADHD is often underdiagnosed in girls and women. There are also factors such as hormones that can affect behavior and it has been seen that self-esteem can be greatly affected in women.

How to treat ADHD

If you struggle with symptoms of ADHD, you know that it can affect all aspects of life, from work to relationships. But it’s important to remember that help is available. Here we go through the steps involved in treating ADHD.

Step 1: Diagnosis

First and foremost, it is important to get an accurate diagnosis. An evaluation is usually carried out by both a psychiatrist and a psychologist who work together on the assessment.

Step 2: Drug treatment

Drug treatment may include stimulant drugs such as Ritalin, or non-stimulant drugs such as Strattera. Because each individual is unique, finding the right dose and type of medication can take time, and medication does not work for everyone.

Step 3: Cognitive behavioural therapy adapted for ADHD

Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) is an evidence-based approach that can help you manage your symptoms and improve your daily life. This may include help with planning, organisation and mindfulness.

Step 4: Lifestyle changes

  • Regular exercise
  • Sleep hygiene
  • Structured diet

Lifestyle changes can make a big difference in how you feel and your symptoms.

Step 5: Support systems

A good support system can do wonders for your mental health. Family, friends and support groups can give you the extra push you need.

Step 6: Follow-up and adjustment

After starting treatment, it is important to have regular follow-ups with your healthcare provider to see if adjustments need to be made.


Written by Dominic Wardall

Dominic is a Cape Town-based copywriter and editor with extensive background and studies in psychology. Dominic is a central part of the articles written on Lavendla.