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If you or your child are unable to speak in certain situations but talk fine in others, you may have selective mutism, a condition more common in children. Here we explain what selective mutism is and how to get help.
Selective mutism is an anxiety disorder usually affecting children. It is present in individuals who have the ability to speak but cannot speak in certain social situations or with certain people. It is important to note that selective mutism is not an inability to speak, but rather an inability to speak in certain contexts or with certain people.
It is a combination of several factors that cause the condition and it can be linked to genetic, biological and environmental factors. If you suffer from social anxiety, this can be an underlying factor.
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The diagnosis affects around 0.7 – 0.8% of children. It is a real problem and cannot be controlled at will. The child can sometimes communicate by nodding, using gestures or writing notes. It can be triggered by stressful events such as a move or a change in preschool, and is more common in cases of autism, cognitive difficulties, and if a child is multilingual.
As selective mutism is considered an anxiety disorder, it may coincide with social anxiety, generalised anxiety disorder (GAD), separation anxiety, agoraphobia, panic disorder or specific phobias.
Selective mutism has a lot in common with the anxiety disorder, social phobia. What distinguishes the two are physical symptoms, with social phobia having more. The diagnosis also means that people are more likely to have language disorders. Situations that trigger anxiety also differ between the syndromes, with social phobia causing anxiety in more situations and the onset often occurring at a later age. But there are definite similarities between the syndromes.
Similarities exist between selective mutism and autism, but the difference is that people with autism have difficulties in all social situations, whereas someone who does not speak can function socially in some social situations. With autism, you may have difficulty understanding social situations, but not in selective mutism.
Selective mutism can sometimes be interpreted as difficulties with speech, but it is not a language disorder. You can speak in some contexts while remaining silent in others. School staff may need support from a speech therapist to deal with these children or students.
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The diagnosis can develop at an early age and is often noticed in preschool. You might think that the child is just shy, but they do not improve after a month, it could be selective mutism. Some of the symptoms are:
The symptoms can sometimes go away on their own, but a person may need more support. The earlier help is received, the better. Treatment may include speech therapy, relaxation exercises, and social skills training. There is little scientific support for drug treatment.
If you are a parent of a child, you can seek help from a speech therapist. The treatment involves changing the attitude towards an environment and gradually getting the child used to talking to others and taking the initiative to speak.
Talking to a licensed psychologist can give you tools to understand and manage symptoms. This can help you overcome the condition and improve your quality of life.
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Selective mutism is an anxiety disorder usually affecting children, where people who otherwise have the ability to speak do not speak in certain social situations or with certain people.
The symptoms often develop in childhood and are similar to anxiety disorders. You may talk to people with whom you feel more comfortable but become silent in other contexts.
Social phobia has more physical symptoms, anxiety in more contexts, and a later age of onset, while someone who doesn’t speak often has a language disorder.
Selective mutism can sometimes be interpreted as having difficulty with speech, but it is not a language disorder.
The diagnosis affects around 0.7 – 0.8% of all children.
There are similarities between selective mutism and autism, but what distinguishes them is that autistic people have difficulties in all social situations, whereas someone who does not speak functions socially in some social contexts.
Treatment may include speech therapy, relaxation exercises, and social skills training.
Untreated anxiety can lead to depression and other mental health problems.
You can seek help from a speech therapist. The treatment involves changing the attitude of the environment and gradually getting the child used to taking up space, talking to others, and taking the initiative to speak.
Selective mutism is considered an anxiety disorder and often it coincides with social anxiety, generalised anxiety disorder (GAD), separation anxiety, agoraphobia, panic disorder, or specific phobias.
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At Lavendla, we have experienced psychologists and therapists working with CBT who can help you feel better.
Seeking help is a big step towards better health and a very a positive thing to decide to take control of how you feel. Here is an overview of the steps usually involved in CBT treatment.
During the first meeting with a psychologist, an assessment is made to review the client’s mental and physical health and how the symptoms manifest themselves.
This is where you set concrete goals for the therapy, both short- and long-term.
Goals can define which areas of your life are most affected by your well-being and how you would like to change them.
This is the start of the actual treatment phase, which involves exercises aimed at providing tools for overcoming and working through a problem.
Treatment is monitored regularly to see how well the therapy is working. If necessary, the treatment plan can be adjusted or renewed.
As the therapy comes to an end, it is time to reflect on the progress made. It is also important to monitor the results over time.
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