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When your behaviors start to interfere with relationships, work, or finances, it might be time to get help. Here we explain what pornography addiction is and what you can do about it.

What is pornography addiction?

Pornography addiction is characterized by excessive consumption of pornography, lack of control, development of tolerance, withdrawal symptoms, loss of interest in other activities and negative impact on life. Professional help can be important if someone is experiencing problematic pornography consumption.

Pornography addiction is a state of psychological dependence on accessing or watching porn that results in a person being unable to stop on their own despite severe negative consequences. Individuals with a pornography addiction typically have tried multiple times to quit without success; lost money because of the addiction; and suffered disruptions in their relationships and jobs. Individuals with a pornography addiction are caught in a “reward cycle” that results in the release of dopamine, which produces temporary feelings of pleasure and euphoria. These rewarding effects contribute to the addictive nature of watching more porn.

Is pornography addiction a diagnosis?

Pornography addiction is not a formal medical or psychiatric diagnosis according to standard diagnostic manuals such as DSM-5 or ICD-10. There is no consensus among experts on whether “pornography addiction” should be classified as a separate diagnosis, and it is a subject of debate.

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Rather than being a formal diagnosis, “pornography addiction” is a term used informally to describe a pattern of problematic and addictive behavior related to pornography or sexual activities. It can be a manifestation of various underlying problems, such as impulse disorders or other mental health issues.

If someone is experiencing problems with pornography that are negatively affecting their lives, it is wise to seek professional therapy to understand and address these issues. The therapist can use various treatment methods to help the client improve their situation and relationships, whether it is formally classified as an ‘addiction’ or not.

Causes of pornography addiction

The causes of problematic pornography consumption can be complex and vary from person to person. Possible factors include biological vulnerabilities, psychological problems such as anxiety or depression, the need for stress relief, increased availability of pornography on the internet, the influence of societal attitudes towards sexuality, and early exposure to pornography at a young age.

It is important to note that causes are unique to each individual and it is usually a combination of several factors that come into play. Professional help can be essential to understand and manage the problem if someone is experiencing problematic pornography consumption.


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Symptoms of pornography addiction

The symptoms of pornography addiction include excessive consumption of pornography, lack of control over the behavior, increased tolerance, withdrawal symptoms when access to porn is limited, loss of interest in other activities, continued access despite negative consequences, and decreased self-esteem.

Symptoms vary from person to person, and professional help is crucial if someone is experiencing problematic pornography consumption that is negatively affecting their life.

Help with pornography addiction

If you are wondering whether you have a pornography addiction or are at risk of developing one, it is important to seek help. Contact one of our experience therapists today to feel better soon.

Treatment for pornography addiction

Treatment for pornography addiction or problematic pornography consumption can be individualized and vary depending on the person’s needs and the severity of the problem. Here are some common treatment methods that can be used:

  1. Therapy: Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is a common form of therapy that can be used to treat porn addiction. The therapist helps the client identify the underlying causes of their behavior and develops strategies to manage desires and control impulses.
  2. Support groups: Participating in support groups or self-help groups with others experiencing similar problems can be useful. Groups provide a sense of community and support from people who understand the challenges.
  3. Family therapy: Sometimes problematic pornography use can affect relationships and family life. Family therapy can help to understand and manage the impact of the problem on relationships.
  4. Medication: In some cases, doctors may consider the use of medication to treat underlying anxiety or depression that may be linked to the problem.
  5. Internet filters and self-control tools: Using technological tools such as internet filters or self-control apps can help limit the availability of pornographic material.
  6. Lifestyle changes: Making positive lifestyle changes, such as developing new interests and activities, can reduce the risk of relapse.
  7. Education and awareness: Understanding the consequences of problematic pornography consumption and raising awareness of its impact can be part of treatment.

It is important that treatment is individualized and that the client works with a qualified therapist to develop an effective treatment plan. Treatment may also include addressing any underlying issues such as anxiety, depression or low self-esteem. The aim is to help the client achieve better control over their behavior and improve their quality of life.

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Our therapists know that it is a huge step for someone to ask for help for a porn addiction. By working with a psychologist or therapist, you can begin to understand your symptoms and triggers, which is crucial for long-term change. Your therapist will be there to support and encourage you as you take a step of faith into new territory. You won’t be making changes alone – you’ll have a therapist right beside you.

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If you are experiencing signs of addiction that are affecting your physical, emotional, and psychological health, it’s not too late. Contact one of our qualified therapists today. 

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12 common questions and answers about porn addiction

What is pornography addiction?

Pornography (or porn) addiction is a complex psychological condition where the individual feels an inability to stop accessing pornography despite negative consequences.

Is pornography addiction a diagnosis?

Pornography addiction is not formally recognized as a specific psychiatric diagnosis, but it can be extremely distressing and disruptive to the lives of those who suffer from it.

Can pornography addiction be cured?

All types of addiction can be treated with appropriate treatment and support.

What are the signs that I may be addicted to pornography?

Symptoms of a porn addiction include excessive consumption of pornography, withdrawal symptoms when access is limited, increased tolerance, loss of interest in other activities, and negative impacts on relationships and other areas of life.

What are the risks of pornography addiction?

The potential risks include physical problems, relationship difficulties, financial struggles, and increased likelihood of developing anxiety, depression, or other mental health problems.

How can I help a family member who is addicted to pornography?

The first step is to offer your support as they seek professional help and engage in treatment. Seek information about the problem if you find it difficult to understand. If your partner is addicted to porn, it may be helpful for you to seek therapy for yourself or as a couple.

What treatment options are available?

There are several different types of treatment for porn addictions such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT).

Can you have other mental health problems while being addicted to pornography?

Pornography addiction can be linked to underlying mental health problems such as anxiety, depression, self-esteem problems or other mental health problems.

What can be done in case of relapse?

Relapse can happen and it is important to remain accountable and seek help immediately when it occurs so you can get back on track.

What resources are available?

In addition to professional therapists and psychologists, there are many websites, books, and support groups that can offer additional information and support.

Can I be treated online?

Yes, all of our therapists offer virtual sessions via our secure video conferencing platform.

How important is it for a person with an addiction to have a support system?

A support system is crucial to successful recovery from an addiction. In addition to professional treatment, a strong informal support system can reduce the risk of relapse and help the person maintain a healthier lifestyle.

Treatment steps to improve quality of life

Treatment for pornography addiction can be done in different ways, but it is usually tailored to the individual’s needs and the severity of the problem. Here is a general description of how treatment for pornography addiction can work:

  1. Initial assessment: Treatment usually begins with a thorough assessment and evaluation of the person’s problematic pornography consumption. This includes determining how long the behavior has been going on, its impact on different areas of life, and any underlying causes and other mental health issues.
  2. Treatment plan: Based on the assessment, an individual treatment plan is developed. This plan may include different therapy methods, support measures, and treatment goals.
  3. Therapy methods: Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is a common form of therapy used to treat pornography addiction. The therapist works with the client to identify and change negative thought patterns and behaviors related to pornography consumption. CBT typically includes developing strategies to manage desires, learning to manage impulses, and changing behavioral patterns.
  4. Support groups: Participating in support groups or self-help groups with others experiencing similar problems can be a valuable part of treatment. It provides a sense of community and support.
  5. Other measures: If necessary, it may be important to take measures to limit access to pornographic material, such as installing internet filters or self-control apps.
  6. Working on underlying issues: If the client has underlying mental health issues, such as anxiety or depression, these can also be treated as part of the therapy.

It is important to note that treatment can be a long-term process. It is therefore important that the client has the support and resources to deal with any relapses if they occur. Treatment should be carried out by a qualified therapist with experience in treating addiction and sexual problems.


Written by Emily Cox