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As humans, breaking negative behaviour can be one of our biggest challenges. If you find yourself in a pattern that has negative consequences, it's important to seek help. In this context, we will explain what pornography addiction is and what you can do to overcome it.

What is pornography addiction?

Pornography addiction, also known as sex addiction, is a problematic and addictive behaviour related to pornography or sexual activities. It is similar to other addictions and is characterized by extreme consumption of pornography, lack of control, development of tolerance, withdrawal symptoms, loss of interest in other activities and negative impact on life. Professional help can be important if someone is experiencing problematic pornography consumption.

Is a pornography addiction a diagnosis?

Pornography addiction is not a formal medical or psychiatric diagnosis according to the standard diagnostic manuals such as DSM-5 (The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) or ICD-10 (International Classification of Diseases). Experts cannot agree on whether a pornography addiction should be classified as a diagnosis.

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Instead of being a formal diagnosis, pornography addiction is a term used informally to describe a pattern of problematic and addictive behaviour related to pornography or sexual activities. It can be a manifestation of various underlying problems, such as impulse disorders or other mental health issues.

If someone is experiencing problems with pornography or sexual behaviour that are negatively affecting their lives, it is wise to seek professional therapy to address these issues. A therapist can use various treatment methods to help you improve your situation and relationships, whether it is formally classified as a disease or not.

Causes of pornography addiction

The causes of problematic pornography consumption can be complex and vary from person to person. Possible factors include biological vulnerabilities, psychological problems such as anxiety or depression, stress, easy access to pornography, the influence of societal attitudes towards sexuality, and early exposure to pornography.

It is important to note that the causes may be unique to each individual, it is usually a combination of several factors that leads to addiction. Professional help can be essential to understand and manage problematic pornography consumption.


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Symptoms of pornography addiction

The symptoms of a pornography addiction can include excessive consumption, lack of control, development of tolerance, withdrawal symptoms, negative impact on different areas of life, loss of interest in other activities, continued consumption despite its negative consequences, hidden consumption, and decreased self-esteem.

It is important to remember that the symptoms vary from person to person, and professional help can be crucial if someone is experiencing pornography consumption that is negatively affecting their life.

Help with pornography addiction

If you are wondering whether you have a pornography addiction or are at risk of developing one, it is important to seek help. Otherwise, this addiction can become worse over time.

Treatment for pornography addiction

Treatment for a pornography addiction is individualized and varies depending on an individual needs and the severity of the problem. Here are some common treatment methods that are often used:

  1. Therapy: Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a common form of therapy that can be used to treat a porn addiction. A therapist can help the individual identify the underlying causes of their behaviour and develop strategies to manage impulses.
  2. Support groups: Participating in support or self-help groups where you engage with others experiencing similar problems can be useful. Support groups provide community and support from people who understand your challenges.
  3. Family therapy: Sometimes problematic pornography use can affect relationships and family life. Family therapy can help to understand and manage the impact of the problem on relationships.
  4. Medication: In some cases, doctors may consider using medication to treat underlying anxiety or depression that aggravates the addiction.
  5. Internet filters and self-control tools: Using technological tools such as internet filters or self-control apps can help limit the availability of pornographic material.
  6. Lifestyle changes: Making positive lifestyle changes, such as developing new interests, can reduce the risk of relapse.
  7. Education and awareness: Understanding the consequences of problematic pornography consumption and raising awareness of its impact can be part of treatment.

It is important that treatment is individualized and that you work with a qualified therapist to develop an effective treatment plan. Treatment may also include addressing any underlying issues, such as anxiety, depression or low self-esteem. The aim is to help you achieve better control over their behaviour and improve your life.

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You can get help for porn addiction online. At Lavendla, all of our sessions are online – via video call.

From conversation to understanding and change

Talk therapy is often the first step in seeking help. By working with a psychologist or therapist, you can begin to understand your symptoms and triggers, which is essential for change.

When is professional help unavoidable?

If you are experiencing signs of pornography addiction that are affecting your life or work, you need to seek professional help. It is never too late to break free from addiction. Help is available, and support is just a click away. If you or someone you love is struggling with addiction, don’t hesitate to seek professional help.

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12 FAQs about Porn Addiction

What is pornography addiction?

Porn addiction, also called sex addiction, is a problematic behaviour related to pornography or sexual activities.

Is pornography addiction a diagnosis?

While pornography addiction is not formally recognized as a diagnosis, this does not mean that you do not have a problem. It is always possible to get help.

Can pornography addiction be cured?

All types of addiction can be treated, but it requires care and support. It is possible to change your addictive patterns and improve your quality of life.

What are the signs that I may be addicted to pornography?

Symptoms include extreme consumption of pornography, lack of control, development of tolerance, withdrawal symptoms, loss of interest in other activities and negative impact on your life.

What are the risks of pornography addiction?

The potential risks range from physical and mental health problems to relationship issues. It is advisable to seek help if you are addicted to porn.

How can I help a family member who is addicted to pornography?

The first step is to offer your support. Encourage them to seek professional help and stand by them during treatment. Work to understand the problem if you find it difficult to understand. If you are a partner of a porn addict, you may also need therapy.

What treatment options are available?

There are several different types of treatment such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT).

Can pornography addicts have other mental health problems?

There may be underlying mental health problems such as anxiety, depression, self-esteem problems or other mental health problems.

What can be done in case of relapse?

Relapse can happen, and it is important to seek help immediately. Relapse is not a sign of failure, but it’s important to swiftly back on track.

What resources are available?

In addition to our professional therapists and psychologists, many websites, books, and support groups can offer additional information and support.

Can I be treated online?

Yes, all of our therapy is conducted online via video conferencing.

How important is the support system around a person with an addiction?

A support system is often crucial to successful recovery. It can help reduce the risk of relapse and help the person maintain a healthier lifestyle.

Treatment steps to improve quality of life

There are several different ways to treat a pornography addiction, it is usually tailored to the individual’s needs and the severity of the problem. Here is a general description of how treatment for pornography addiction might work:

  1. Initial assessment: Treatment usually begins with a thorough assessment and evaluation of the individual’s pornography consumption. This includes determining how long the person has been engaging in this behaviour, its impact on their life, and any underlying mental health issues.
  2. Treatment plan: Based on the assessment, an individual treatment plan will be developed. This plan may include different therapy methods, support measures, and treatment goals.
  3. Therapy methods: Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a common form of therapy used to treat a pornography addiction. A therapist will work to identify and change negative thought patterns and behaviours related to pornography. CBT typically includes developing strategies to manage desires, learning to manage impulses, and changing behavioural patterns.
  4. Support groups: Partaking in support or self-help groups with others experiencing similar problems can be a valuable part of treatment. It provides a sense of community and support.
  5. Other measures: If necessary, it may be important to take measures to limit access to pornographic material, such as installing internet filters or self-control apps.
  6. Working on underlying issues: If there are underlying mental health issues, such as anxiety or depression, these can also be treated as part of the therapy.

Remember that treatment can be a long-term process, and relapses are possible. An individual must have the support and resources to deal with any relapses if they occur. Treatment should be carried out by a qualified therapist with experience in treating addiction and sexual problems.


Written by Samantha Pieterse

Sr. Samantha Pieterse is a registered psychiatric nurse who is deeply committed to mental health and well-being. Samantha brings a unique and valuable perspective to her role as an editor for Lavendla South Africa. She has worked in Government and Private mental healthcare institutions in Gauteng and her expertise ensures that the articles on our website are accurate and accessible. Samantha is dedicated to enhancing mental health awareness and education in South Africa.